
My third Willow Tree Angel is one I received as a gift from my sister in law Marion – The Angel of Caring

Her tagline is “Always there, listening with a willing ear and an open heart”
As I type this, I am listening to a news bulletin about the treatment people receive in hospitals. People keep trotting out the same phrases “quality of care” and “care packages”. I do not want to debate the hospital issue here- but it strikes me that when we reduce “care” to a commodity which can be assessed with a series of tick boxes - like bottles of pills, or boxes of sterile dressings or frequency and length of time of a patient's appointments with the consultant, we lose something.
The great thing about this little angel is that she is sitting down. Her elbows on her knees, turned to face the speaker, she is clearly giving her full attention to the other person. Her whole body language shows that she cares. She has made the time to stop, and sit, and listen – to take seriously the concern of her friend. Maybe she is in the middle of a frantically busy day [for we all know that angels are extremely busy at this time of year!] but she has stopped, and taken a seat so she can engage in real conversation.
I have encountered many ‘angels of caring’ throughout my life. I thank God for them. Some have been “professionals”, like pastors, teachers, medical personnel, social workers etc., and some “amateurs” [from the Latin – those who do it for love] like parents, relations, friends. And the best ones are those who truly made me feel they were listening and genuinely wanted to help. [not like Dr Lucy on the left]
Having heard my side of the problem, they did not judge, but asked the right, incisive questions to help me work towards an answer, and offered their support as I did so. Caring for people may include
- just listening to them as they talk
- praying with and for them
- helping them to accomplish a task
- doing something practical for them
- making them feel loved and wanted and special
I want to be that sort of angel for people. May God give us all the grace to be willing to find space and time to care for others – even when we think we are too busy.
After all, Jesus was never too busy or too tired to care, was he?