Wednesday, 22 April 2026

I'm On the Train!

I had carefully planned some activities for the 9 hours I was expecting to spend on trains over the weekend. "The best laid plans of mice, men [and enthusiastic grandmas] gang aft agley" said that Scottish guy [almost] Bob bought me a newspaper at the station, while I got a croissant  - I'd got a flask of coffee in my bag.

 When I boarded the train, well before 8am on Saturday, I was thrilled to find a table seat. I folded the paper back to the crossword. I was joined by a very chatty woman going to Leicester to watch her son play rugby. She was accompanied by the son's girlfriend and his shorts, which he'd forgotten to pack when he left earlier in the week! 
She chatted all the way to where they changed trains. The girl dozed [or pretended to!] I now know all about burial customs in the French Cameroons [where she regularly visits her late mother] and grape-growing in Norfolk. They got off, I began my crossword. Filled in two clues. Then the next person came and sat opposite me. She also started up a conversation, I put down my pen. 
A delightful woman, a charity worker, en route to a surprise birthday party. "Do you mind if I put my make up on? I didn't have time before I left?" She managed to do amazing things with brushes and palettes whilst conversing about anything and everything. I learned, among other things, that the phrase in use when I retired from teaching "high functioning autistic" should now be replaced with "twice blessed" [Duly noted] She de-trained just before Sheffield.
My final travel companion was off for a girls' weekend with old friends from Uni. Her two children were the same age as George and Jacob, but she was confident their Dad would cope. She had been a teacher, but after the children arrived had moved to a part-time admin job, which was less stressful - and finished at 'hometime' - not evening marking and prep work! 
She got off and I had half an hour to myself. I finished my lukewarm coffee and my crossword.  Steph and Liz met me at Manchester Piccadilly. Liz had brought a book with her to lend to Steph, and I speed-read it over the weekend. 

I may review this later! The journey back was good. I boarded the train with a couple of similar age who were going right through to Norwich, and on to Yarmouth for the racing. We chatted for a bit as we settled in, then he did a huge crossword, she put in her earbuds, and I sorted out my cross stitch. Having established which colours I needed beforehand, I made three strips of card, drew the little symbols and numbers and cut and threaded lengths of yarn.
I was pleased to have my threads ready for beginning the project. Then I read my book right through!
I can't review it yet, Bob wants to read it first! Yes I know "Murder under the Mistletoe" is somewhat unseasonal.
It was a birthday gift from my old schoolfriend. She is still  in hospital, and unable to shop. So is wisely regifting her Xmas presents, and felt a book by a Rev was one she could happily pass on to me.
I did pack a second book, but I suspect I have left that in Manchester...
How do you pass the time on long train journeys?


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18 comments:

  1. You did well with your activities! It's very nice to chat to people but sometimes, I do want a bit of silence.
    I always have a book with me, I often bring Qwirkle with me to play with C and I might write poems or look at blogs or Insta etc!

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    1. Perhaps I should put in my earbuds and close my eyes BEFORE anyone sits opposite me!!

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  2. Sounds like you met some very friendly people on that train ride! I am not sure what I'd do on a long train ride! The last time I rode a train was in 1975, when I went from Indiana back to Wisconsin after visiting a roommate and her family. :)

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  3. You must have a face like mine, that makes people open up and tell you all their stories, sometimes it's a good thing. :-)

    I love train travel but sadly, I haven't been on a train in years.

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    1. Hope things are going OK with you and yours Sue ❤️

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  4. I always aim for a seat on my own rather than having to be polite!

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    1. The train is only 3 carriages long, it gets pretty full

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  5. I think it's wonderful to meet new people on trains and learn all about their different lives. A book is good to have but that is something you can pick up any time! You are always a person who uses time wisely. JanF

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  6. Usually earbuds in first thing--book in hand, though once in a while I end up having a nice conversation with someone. Also, I usually try to reserve a two seater--easier to avoid conversations if you aren't face to face and you don't have to play footsies. Though I will also admit to sometimes getting a very reduced first class ticket (w/senior railcard) and finding a one-seater for some guaranteed solitude. But even then, there may be someone nearby who feels compelled to talk so loudly either to a companion or on their mobile that it overrides even my noise canceling earbud feature. Such is life.

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    1. Unfortunately you cannot usually reserve seats on this particular journey. Fortunately I had pleasant travelling companions!

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  7. I haven’t done a long train journey for years but I seem to have one of those faces that encourages people to talk to me. I had a lovely conversation with a farmer at the hospital this morning whilst I was waiting for Norrie to have his eye injection. He had brought his 80 year old uncle for cataract removal and had been there from 7 30 am waiting. I was so glad that I spoke to him as he leads a solitary and rather lonely life on his farm. I did all the emails etc when I came home. Catriona

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    1. That was so kind of you to chat to the gentleman . I hope N's eye is recovering ok .

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  8. You had so much patience and kindness! It's years since I went on a really long train journey, Gatwick to Dumfries. Quite an adventure, but I was annoyed at being the entertainer for a small bored child for too long; mum was enjoying having some peace. Amusing the child was better than enduring his boredom though!

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    1. His Mum must have been so grateful to you

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  9. Ang, you blessed all those travelling companions on your journey up North. I’m sure the good Lord was chuckling cos you know what they say - ‘if you want to hear God laugh tell him your plans!!’ 😂😂
    Big hugs
    San xx

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  10. 🤣🤣🤣 I did get to finish my crossword, and finish my book, and sort my threads on the trip back , even if the journey to Manchester didn't go as planned

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