I had carefully planned some activities for the 9 hours I was expecting to spend on trains over the weekend. "The best laid plans of mice, men [and enthusiastic grandmas] gang aft agley" said that Scottish guy [almost] Bob bought me a newspaper at the station, while I got a croissant - I'd got a flask of coffee in my bag.
She chatted all the way to where they changed trains. The girl dozed [or pretended to!] I now know all about burial customs in the French Cameroons [where she regularly visits her late mother] and grape-growing in Norfolk. They got off, I began my crossword. Filled in two clues. Then the next person came and sat opposite me. She also started up a conversation, I put down my pen.
A delightful woman, a charity worker, en route to a surprise birthday party. "Do you mind if I put my make up on? I didn't have time before I left?" She managed to do amazing things with brushes and palettes whilst conversing about anything and everything. I learned, among other things, that the phrase in use when I retired from teaching "high functioning autistic" should now be replaced with "twice blessed" [Duly noted] She de-trained just before Sheffield.
My final travel companion was off for a girls' weekend with old friends from Uni. Her two children were the same age as George and Jacob, but she was confident their Dad would cope. She had been a teacher, but after the children arrived had moved to a part-time admin job, which was less stressful - and finished at 'hometime' - not evening marking and prep work! She got off and I had half an hour to myself. I finished my lukewarm coffee and my crossword. Steph and Liz met me at Manchester Piccadilly. Liz had brought a book with her to lend to Steph, and I speed-read it over the weekend. I may review this later! The journey back was good. I boarded the train with a couple of similar age who were going right through to Norwich, and on to Yarmouth for the racing. We chatted for a bit as we settled in, then he did a huge crossword, she put in her earbuds, and I sorted out my cross stitch. Having established which colours I needed beforehand, I made three strips of card, drew the little symbols and numbers and cut and threaded lengths of yarn.
I was pleased to have my threads ready for beginning the project. Then I read my book right through!
I can't review it yet, Bob wants to read it first! Yes I know "Murder under the Mistletoe" is somewhat unseasonal.
It was a birthday gift from my old schoolfriend. She is still in hospital, and unable to shop. So is wisely regifting her Xmas presents, and felt a book by a Rev was one she could happily pass on to me.
I did pack a second book, but I suspect I have left that in Manchester...
How do you pass the time on long train journeys?
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You did well with your activities! It's very nice to chat to people but sometimes, I do want a bit of silence.
ReplyDeleteI always have a book with me, I often bring Qwirkle with me to play with C and I might write poems or look at blogs or Insta etc!
Perhaps I should put in my earbuds and close my eyes BEFORE anyone sits opposite me!!
DeleteSounds like you met some very friendly people on that train ride! I am not sure what I'd do on a long train ride! The last time I rode a train was in 1975, when I went from Indiana back to Wisconsin after visiting a roommate and her family. :)
ReplyDeleteThat was a very long time ago!
DeleteYou must have a face like mine, that makes people open up and tell you all their stories, sometimes it's a good thing. :-)
ReplyDeleteI love train travel but sadly, I haven't been on a train in years.
Hope things are going OK with you and yours Sue ❤️
DeleteI always aim for a seat on my own rather than having to be polite!
ReplyDeleteThe train is only 3 carriages long, it gets pretty full
DeleteI think it's wonderful to meet new people on trains and learn all about their different lives. A book is good to have but that is something you can pick up any time! You are always a person who uses time wisely. JanF
ReplyDeleteIt is interesting to meet other people
DeleteUsually earbuds in first thing--book in hand, though once in a while I end up having a nice conversation with someone. Also, I usually try to reserve a two seater--easier to avoid conversations if you aren't face to face and you don't have to play footsies. Though I will also admit to sometimes getting a very reduced first class ticket (w/senior railcard) and finding a one-seater for some guaranteed solitude. But even then, there may be someone nearby who feels compelled to talk so loudly either to a companion or on their mobile that it overrides even my noise canceling earbud feature. Such is life.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately you cannot usually reserve seats on this particular journey. Fortunately I had pleasant travelling companions!
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