Thursday, 6 February 2025

A Shedload Of Goodness

Etymologists disagree on the definition of ‘shedload’ – some say it is the amount of a shed load [which fell off the back of a lorry] others say it is amount of stuff which can be loaded into a shed. Who knows…

I’ve heard it said that if you put a dozen women in a room, and ask how they are feeling, all will start talking at once – but if you repeat the exercise with a dozen men, six will leave the room, and the others will try and hide in the corner. However, if you put a dozen men in a room, with a lawnmower, and say “This isn’t working” you will go back an hour later and find they are all chatting away to each other- and you may even have a mended mower.
That’s the rationale behind the Men’s Shed Movement. The aim is to help develop men’s health and wellbeing. In retirement, many blokes can feel bereft - they’ve lost the companionship of the workmates, they may have moved to a new area, and perhaps been widowed. It is hard to establish new friendships. But working alongside someone at a bench, with hands-on practical activities is a good way to meet people. Sharing skills and making useful things for others gives a sense of purpose and job satisfaction.
Our “Shed Project” in Swanton Morley is thriving since Bob first launched it in 2023. Every Wednesday, a group of guys meet at Mulberry Farm. They make and mend things, and have a mardle [chat] together. There has already been tremendous support from private individuals, and larger groups. 
As well as refurbishing their meeting space- with shelves, a woodstore, and a refreshment area, the Swanton “Shedders” have already done a significant number of projects to benefit the community: 
  • a bench on the Brownies allotment, 
  • refurbishing the All Saints Church noticeboards, 
  • puppet stands for Swaffham Museum, 
  • picnic benches for Swanton Primary School
  • doorstops for the new Hospice, and more.

There are plans afoot to link with the charity “Tools With A Mission” and refurbish old tools for development projects in the Third World. Many local individuals have kindly donated tools which they no longer need. Some from people who have given up woodwork, others from bereaved folk, passing on tools from deceased spouses and other relations, so these items can still be used and appreciated. 


Bob has a stack of special cards he can send to express the gratitude of the Shedders for such gifts [I cannot do woodwork, but I can make cards for him].
That’s definitely “a shedload of goodness” happening right here in our village, and something to celebrate. I feel privileged to be a small part of. It is truly making an impact in this little corner of Norfolk

 

21 comments:

  1. Such a great project! How many different people take part and what sort of ages? Well done to Bob and his pals!

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    1. They currently meet Wednesday morning, all retired guys, usually between 4 & 9 of them at present, but there's about a dozen In the group I think

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  2. Sounds a wonderful project. My husband would have loved it!

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  3. I agree with all your comments entirely. My problem is getting my brother in law to join his local group. I’m sure he would benefit.

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  4. It was interesting to read about the word mardle. Back in about 2008 a new series started on Radio 4 called on Mardle Fen about a restaurant in Cambridgeshire Fen country. There were quite a few ‘characters’ in it and talk of the special nature of the area. Now I know where the writer, Nick Warburton, got the name from! Charmaine

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  5. Thanks Charmaine. That series passed me by completely. The word is in regular use round here, it's a good word for a chat, kinder than "gossip" and somehow gentler than "natter"

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  6. It has all taken off so fast, so it's very obvious that something like this was really needed and welcomed in your area. It's also good that you can both be involved. I hope there's something similar in our area, I'll have to check it out for Alan. Oh, and a 'shedload' in Manchester simply means a lot of something.

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    1. Check out menssheds.org.uk to find a shed near you!

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  7. This is wonderful and well done Bob for starting it. I love that you are involved in making the cards too. It's one of those win/win projects which warms my heart to read about on a sub zero day today! JanF

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  8. Later posting today as we were at the hospital for the Shedman’s eye jab. He met someone in the waiting room who can no longer attend the Shedman due to failing health and was able to reassure him that the eye jabs are nothing to fear. He missed the Shed today as he has to keep away from dust etc for 48 hours. Catriona

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  9. I hope Shedman's eyes recover quickly. "Missing the shed for medical appointments" seems to be the major reason for absences here too! And there's a lot of sawdust in the air round all those tools, so he is wise to stay home. I am very very squeamish about eye things! πŸ‘πŸ‘

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  10. It's so good that something like this has taken off. The old meeting places of Working Men's Clubs are disappearing, and weren't necessarily that healthy, and it's great for men to have that practical place. Bob was a hero for founding a local shed.

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  11. It is great to see so much knowledge shared and camaraderie taking place. Your cards are great.

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  12. Glad to hear that the shed project is going well and you are participating by making the cards for them. :)

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  13. This is such a great project to bring people together to share skills, enjoy each others company and feel useful. I hope it goes from strength to strength.

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