Wednesday, 19 November 2025

The Wife Of Bath

I have never actually read this story from The Canterbury Tales [ my knowledge of them is lamentably poor, I confess] Although I do know that "Bath" refers to the city, not the place where one washes.
I was thinking about baths this week - one friend has problems with her boiler, another with her immersion heater. Lack of hot water is an issue for both of them. I remembered my childhood - how different things were back then.

I usually had a bath once a week, and there was not much water. I'm amazed we didn't have one of those black lines painted round, as they did in the war years - only 5"water allowed. Sometimes there was just not enough hot water. So I was given a 'strip wash' at the sink, involving a damp flannel. The bathroom was so cold.
And sometimes, I had to kneel with my head over the bath, and Mum would wash my hair. She would pour water from a jug, and somehow it always went in my eyes and down my neck! I was so excited when we got one of those y-shaped rubber thingies that fitted on the taps, so she could direct the shower head onto my hair/head and the process seemed easier.
My own daughters hated hairwashing when they were very young [I usually did it as they sat in the bath] I am not sure those hairwash shields were very effective. But eventually they got used to the idea. We were pleased when we got Cornerstones, to discover the bath is quite long - Bob can sit in it quite comfortably. Yet we have hardly used it, preferring to take a quick shower. I am not one of those candlelight, lots of water and bubbles, and a glass of wine sort of bathers [like Bridget Jones and co] 
The bath only really gets used when the grandchildren are here, and Rosie & Jess, or George& Jakey, pile in together and play with the rubber ducks and the pirate ship. And they gleefully squirt Grandad with the water cannon.


Our washing habits have, I hope, improved since the Wife of Bath and her medieval friends. We have baths, showers, bidets etc. We should not take our hot washing water, and cold fresh drinking water for granted. So many in our world go without either.
During Covid, the Toilet-Twinning charity did tap twinning, to enable people in the 3rd world to maintain good hygiene standards in the pandemic. We twinned the tap in the Futility Room. That group no longer offer this twinning, but another group does. And Water Aid does an incredible amount across the globe, to provide clean water, toilets, and good hygiene. Spend a penny, then send a donation...



31 comments:

  1. In 2007 Cheltenham had no water for ten days because the pumping station at Tewkesbury flooded during a very bad storm. It was a salutary lesson for us all. Drinking water was distributed by the army. I’ve always given regularly to Wateraid but apparently donations to Wateraid escalated that year from this area. As a student in the 1970s I lived without hot water for three months, oh this cold baths, brrrh.
    Jill x

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    1. I remember seeing the Cheltenham flood thing on the BBC, with the Army giving out water. Being without water, even briefly, makes us more aware of how important it is , for EVERYBODY

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  2. There's also a cheese called Wyfe of Bath (I hope it doesn't taste like bath water!)

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    1. According to the website, this semi-hard cheese is "Succulent, nutty and creamy - redolent of buttercups and summer meadows...when you cut into Wyfe of Bath, you get a taste of Old England [£70 for 1.2 kilos] " So not tasting like bath water, then!

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  3. I've always meant to pair our toilet with one somewhere but never got around to it. I grew up with a bath, no shower and up until I got married and moved out, I washed my hair with a Tupperware white jug that lived in the bathroom for that purpose, in the bath. I STILL, to this day, get into my shower in awe and gratitude!

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    1. I never lived in a house with a proper shower till I was 40!

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  4. We 'twinned our toilet' years and years ago, after I noticed the photographs in the church loos, and in friend's bathrooms. They give you the GPS location of 'your' loo and I was able to roughly locate it somewhere in the Democratic Republic of Congo; the children at school were fascinated when I showed it to them using Google satellite view. I wonder if it is still there, and what has happened to the family? DRC has seen so much turmoil and strife.

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    1. I just checked my certificate - there is a photo - but no location!

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  5. We had a claw footed bathtub in my half-sister's bathroom when I was growing up. The rest of the bathrooms had showers. We didn't have hot water on tap (not needed), but, there was a wall-mounted water heater in my parents' bathroom. All our water came from a well in the backyard that was pumped to a tank overhead. Sometimes, we'd forget to turn the pump off and the tank would overflow. :)

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    1. I am always fascinated by claw-footed baths, usually only seen in National Trust old country houses now

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  6. When we had our bathroom redone in. Arch, everyone seemed surprised that we were putting in a new bath at our age. We do have a shower in the other toilet and I really do enjoy a bath. However, it’s an acrylic bath and I am not really keen on it. Eye jab day for Norrie this afternoon so I shall be driving home in the dark if he’s kept waiting past his appointment time. Catriona

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    1. I have a clothes rack which stands over the bath, used in the winter for drying laundry. Drive carefully tonight, hope N's treatment goes ok

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    2. That's where my laundry rack lives, too! ~ skye

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  7. Water Aid is one of the charities I regularly donate to, they do good work. We have a bath and a separate shower, the bath hardly gets used. We are so lucky to have hot water just by turning on a tap. I do count my blessings every day. Regards Sue H

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    1. Now we are older, I realise how useful a shower is - so much easier than clambering in and out of the bath!

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  8. I shower only, since a couple of years ago when I had a great struggle to get out of the bathtub. I live alone and decided I didn't want to be rescued from the tub! The shower is in the tub but as long as I'm vertical it's fine.

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  9. This brought back memories for me 😀
    Alison in Devon x

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  10. My childhood baths were in a tin bath infront of the coal fire! These days it a quick morning shower in a comfy warm bathroom!

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    1. When Bob visited his grandmother in Belgium, she had a tin bath 🛀

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  11. Oh gosh, you brought back childhood memories of a freezing cold unheated bathroom, and the Sunday teatime bath ritual. It was so good to get into pyjamas and a dressing gown afterwards, even though we did have to go to bed ridiculously early to give our parents a 'child-free' evening. Now after years of having a lovely hot bath every night, I just have showers, sadly I can no longer get out of the bath, so it's not worth getting in!! :-)

    My tap is twinned with one in the Democratic Republic of Congo, I hope their still works as well as mine.

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    1. Dressing gowns are real comfort garments. I wonder if your tap is near Kirsten's!

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    2. Haha ... yes, we could be side by side in a communal kitchen. :-)

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  12. I did The Canterbury Tales for A level English, many years ago and they were hard work too. In our 'new to us' house we have a bathroom with overhead shower, only used by Iris in the year we've been here and an en-suite shower. I'm so glad I don't have to climb in and out the bath any more. Xx

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  13. If Iris is like Rosie , I bet she enjoys the bath. Rosie recently discovered " bath pearls"

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  14. I remember being in a small tin bath in front of the fire as a child, and hooking my toes into the handle. I had to be careful that the handle didn't get too hot from the fire. Now I am aware, not just about the people in countries where there are no bathrooms, but also about the homeless in first world countries, who don't have easy access to toilets and bathrooms.

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  15. I remember cautionary tales about children who pushed their toes into the taps and got them stuck !!

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  16. Hi Ang! Wow! That's so interesting reading about bathtime when you were young. My sister and I screamed when we had our hair washed on Saturday nights. We were simply in the habit of screaming while my mom washed our hair. It didn't hurt, but we believed it was an occasion to express ourselves! LOL! I always think of Corrie ten Boom when I am in a hot bath. When she was released from the concentration camp she ended up at a hospital and they gave her a delicious bath and she was ever so grateful. xo

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    1. Did you see the film "The Hiding Place" which was very accurate to her book.

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