Monday, 6 October 2025

The Children Cheer Up Their Grandparents

Let's be honest, I woke up feeling a little bit flat on Saturday morning. I should have been greeting the dawn from a hotel room in the South of France. But we both determined to get over it, and get on with life. We enjoyed a proper English breakfast, and then I finished off seven more aprons. 
"We're on our way!" Liz messaged us. Their plans had changed, so they'd decided to make a lightning trip to Norfolk to cheer us up. I hadn't see Jess since August - how has she grown so much in 4½ weeks at school. She likes maths best, and she knows all about phonics, she told me!
Liz suggested that as we had a 'free' week, we should try and go out places, perhaps find somewhere different to enjoy a coffee."Perhaps with a cookie?" volunteered Jess, adding "or maybe a cupcake?" then, triumphantly "You could even have a macaron!"
In August we took Rosie to an art exhibition in Norwich - paintings by Thelma MacFarlane, the late mother of my Fiona. Fiona was enchanted by Ro's appreciation of the pictures, and her ability to explain what she liked, and what she thought the artist was trying to portray. Bob had a favourite. So he bought it - and Rosie stood for ages in the hall, looking at it and telling me about it. [I made a video to send to Fiona] I loved listening to her critique - sounding just like her Auntie Steph did 30 years ago.

That really cheered me up. And Jess and Rosie came in the kitchen with me to make three chocolate bars from a craft kit. For Grandad, Mummy and Daddy. Sadly the 'leave in fridge for 40 minutes to set' instruction was wrong. Grandad was presented with a very sticky offering. We left the parents' bars chilling overnight, and they were fine on Sunday,
Lunch with the family here was delightful. Can you believe that stack of marshmallows on Ro's Hot Chocolate? Jess was unstoppably cheerful, didn't stand still long enough for a photo. But we did get lots of hugs from them both.
And up in Manchester, George and Jacob went to Tatton Park with their friends, and sent us pictures of all they were doing.
I feel very blessed to have this loving family around me - we had lots of laughs and good conversations. And plenty of time just to sit and relax. "Mummy says we have to cheer you up, because you couldn't go on holiday!" they told me.
I am cheered, and feel greatly loved. "Your friends are so kind" said Bob, reading all the lovely comments and good wishes on the blog. 

Thank you family, thank you friends! Or should I say "Merci beaucoup!"

40 comments:

  1. That sounds even better than a holiday.

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  2. I have only just read your post about having to cancel your holiday and noted the positive point about not having to fly. Do try travelling by train instead. It's so easy to travel around Europe, trains usually on time and clean, refreshments available and helpful staff (many English speaking) to assist. I'm over 70 and have just returned from a three week holiday through many parts of Europe.

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    1. We did Paris on the train. But it was the timings that made plane a better option

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  3. Dear Ang, I'm so grateful you have such a kind family to come and cheer you up. I hope that you enjoy some treats this week. Xx

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  4. Aren't they all lovely! I hope you have a wonderful 'holiday at home ' free from the 'tyranny' of the appointments diary! A week to do whatever you want together is a very precious gift.

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    1. Currently at the North Norfolk coast enjoying the sunshine

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  5. Just catching up. Sad to hear you have had to cancel your holiday - I hope Bob is feeling a bit better. Love that the family is rallying round, it’s always a joy to see the grandchildren.

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  6. That is so wonderful, your family are joyous. The photos are great. They made me feel more chipper on a Monday morning where I think I am starting g a cold! Wishing Bob's back better and that you both have some treats this coming week. Regards Sue H

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    1. I hope your cold does not get worse! 🩵

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  7. What a lovely surprise to have a visit from the London family.
    Hope you have lots of macaroons this week!

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  8. What a lovely family! Hope you feel cheered. How does one approach a hot chocolate through that mountain of topping??

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    1. She started carefully with a teaspoon. Then it all got a bit splashy.

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  9. Sending you both much love, hugs and prayers. Chronic, unrelenting pain is very very wearying so Bob has my sympathies in bucket loads. I do hope you manage to take up the advice of your delightful granddaughter and enjoy coffee and cake in abundance this week.
    San xx

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    1. Thank you. Enjoying the autumn sunshine by the sea this morning

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  10. You have a beautiful family!

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  11. Aww, that sounds like a lovely time was had by all. Now you have to follow instructions and go for lots of coffees, and cookies and cupcakes, and maybe even a macaron. You have a lovely family. xx

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  12. You and Bob really are " reaping what you've sown " you've raised your family in love and grace and they reciprocate which is very precious x
    Alison in Devon x

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  13. Families are everything. I had a day with one lot yesterday and am on school pick up for the big 'uns today (Mac n'cheese for tea so will have some for you!).Start planning your next trip! How's Bob's back?

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    1. Seeing family again next weekend too - lovely.

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  14. What a wonderful surprise to have your family at the weekend. Enjoy your staycation and being by the sea sounds just the ticket. Catriona

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    1. Norfolk is a beautiful county, so happy to be here

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  15. Having something different to do or go to is just as good as a holiday, although I'm sure the South of France will figure in your plans maybe next year. We have Iris today as she had a tummy bug over the weekend and couldn't go to school today (on top of another dislocation -left elbow this time). So we have done some art using an app which tells you how to draw bunnies, ice-creams, reading and maths. Enjoy your coffee and cakes and the sunshine. Xx

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    1. Poor Iris. Sounds like you are being an excellent gran, as usual

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  16. Children and grandchildren make everything better!

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    1. On balance I think they do [ but they also seem to use vast quantities of loo roll and liquid soap every time they visit the bathroom though]

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  17. Sorry to hear about the holiday. You are right, though - you wouldn't have enjoyed it if Bob weren't well. It will be round again. I am like you, and I never miss flying.

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    1. I'm greatly reassured to discover there are many others who are not keen on aeroplanes

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  18. How lovely to have warmth and love of family to compensate for your missed adventure in France! Who knows, you may get the French trip as wel soonl, when Bob is fit for travel.

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  19. Family are so very precious and like you I am blessed that time with them is so special. Grandchildren are such fun and seeing the world through their eyes is interesting and fun. I’m glad you have had a good start to this week. It’s so disappointing that you weren’t able to go to France but being unwell when you are away from home comforts is no fun at all. Hopefully there will be an opportunity to book another holiday. I must admit flying isn’t my favourite way of travelling and we usually drive to France.
    Hope you are both able to enjoy a little outing and treat each day this week.
    Sue

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    1. Thankyou Sue. It was the right decision to cancel. We are happy together at home 🏡 and having a few treats.

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  20. How wonderful to have the family come to visit and cheer you up! I think Jess had the right idea when it comes to enjoying some treats this week. A visit to France can wait until later. :)

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