Thomas Hardy's perpetual calendar on his desk was always set at March 7th, because that was the day he met Emma, his first wife.
I was very taken with this idea, so when I saw Hardy's Calendar in Dorset, eight years ago, I came home and altered
my calendar to the date when I first met Bob [this late Victorian calendar was inherited from Great Aunt Amy, Grandad's sister]
For the record, like Thomas and Emma, we met in church.
Bob's first words [on seeing my student sweatshirt] "Oh no! not another
teacher!". We went on to an after church youth group, and spent the
evening sitting on the sofa discussing the sermon, and sharing a 'Youth Praise'
songbook. And today marks 48 years together - friend, fiancé, husband, soulmate - my 'better half'
The last week has been pretty significant for us too. After a lot of waiting [three years since the doctor declared him an 'urgent' case] Bob has finally had the denervation procedure on his back, to relieve him of the constant and acute pain he has been suffering for so long.
That was last Friday [hence my absence from the church holiday club] Things are looking good. It's wonderful to see him standing straight and tall and free of pain.
Last weekend we went to the coast, Bob walked down to the water and swam in the sea with Rosie.
Thanking God for all His goodness to us and to our family