Wednesday, 9 July 2025

A Short, Short Break

We had hoped for a short break after the Kitchen Project was completed. Bob wanted to return to the Canterbury area where he grew up. Things kept getting in the way. Last Wednesday we decided if we didn't book it soon, it would be the school holidays...So we investigated possible accommodation. Airbnbs seemed quite expensive for what was offered. But Keynes College, part of Kent Uni, offer a really good b&b deal. 
Double room, with ensuite. Use of kitchen and lounge, full breakfast menu, free parking. So we booked Friday - Wednesday. And planned our schedule. Whitstable, walk by the sea. Canterbury and see the sites, and be nostalgic. Return to Littlebourne where Bob grew up, and the Churchyard where his dad is buried. Deal Beach Parlours [once owned by Bob's Italian godmother] for an ice cream. Stroll through picturesque Rye. Eat a sandwich in Sandwich...It didn't happen as planned 
Friday
drove down, over Dartford Bridge, stopped at Bluewater for lunch in Leon. Got to uni at 3. Checked in [2nd floor room] Bob had back pain, so I walked to nearby Campus Co-op, got a couple of microwave ready meals for tea. He felt better after food, so at 7pm we drove to Whitstable for dessert.
Saturday into city centre for 9.45. The Medieval Pageant was due to start at 11. We pootled along, visited his Mum's church [not been there since his sister's wedding nearly 44 years ago] looked at people in costume setting up stalls, and displays in the Library, had a coffee. 10.55 we were in the Methodist Church, and Bob said he needed to sit for a bit. I went outside for 10 minutes to watch the procession pass by. Returned to find him feeling really unwell, The kind church ladies looked after him whilst I fetched the car and was able to drive it round to side entrance. Back to Uni. Arranged to change to a ground floor room. It was Really Hot. Bob slept. I took the car to big supermarket for more food. 
Sunday
 after a disturbed night, Bob said he still wanted to go to Littlebourne. The sun was shining brightly. We had coffee in the local pub, visited the lovely old church [no service this week] and stood quietly at Dad's grave under the trees. Onto Sandwich, for a sandwich
The Folk and Ale Festival was in full swing, great music and Morris Dancers everywhere. Excellent sandwiches. Onto to Dover, to the Ancient Maison Dieu. Then the heavens opened, we were soaked to the skin. Bob felt ill again, acute pain, nausea and more. Back at Uni he phoned 111, we ended up in Ashford Hospital Urgent Treatment Centre. Kidney infection, antibiotics. 
Monday He slept all day.
Tuesday we came home a day early, it was a long drive - and I managed it ok [but 8 miles from home, we stopped for petrol, and he kindly took over for the last bit]. 
I did manage to get a few good pictures, and will post them later. Right now I'm concentrating on nursing duties. Happy to say that Bob is getting better, slowly

42 comments:

  1. Not the plan! Still I'm glad you managed to pack quite a bit in, and visit Bob's father's grave. Hope Bob's better soon.

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    1. A good night's sleep in his own bed appears to have helped

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  2. Glad Bob is on the mend but what a shame about your holiday not going as planned. Tell Bob to take it easy and keep drinking plenty of fluids-the hot weather is forecast to return. Catriona

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  3. Hope Bob is feeling better soon. How awful for you both. You can always revisit. I am sure your nursing skills are as good as your sewing skills 🙂.

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  4. I'm so sorry to hear that Bob became ill and that your holiday was not as planned. Love and prayers for the healing to continue. X

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  5. Oh such a shame, poor Bob and you too. I wish him a speedy recovery. Lots of fluids is the medical advice given to me, it does help.

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  6. So sorry to hear Bob was so poorly and hope the antibiotics do their job. Best laid plans and all that. Thinking of you both. No place like home when one is poorly. Regards Sue H

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    1. It is easier to relax with your own bed and bathroom at hand!

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  7. Hope Bob is soon better so you can try for a holiday again.

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  8. Sorry to hear your holiday didn't go as planned but glad Bob is on the mend. At least you achieved some of your plans and are both home safe now.

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    1. We got to do the special things on our list, so glad about that

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  9. Poor Bob and poor you! The best laid plans, as they say. Better luck next time.

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  10. I'm so sorry to hear this, Angela. I'm thankful he is feeling a bit better and I'll be praying that he mends quickly.

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    1. Thank you Terri. His appetite is returning, a good sign!

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  11. I'm glad to hear that Bob is slowly improving. He was very brave trying to keep himself to the holiday timetable. Thank goodness you are both drivers, it does take the pressure off doesn't it. You can always go back and do it all again when you have a few days ... and the kids are back at school.

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    1. Yes, both being able to drive really helps

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  12. Glad to read that Bob is improving. Kidney infections are nasty. Hopefully you will be able to return to Canterbury soon and do all the sights that you missed. Xx

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  13. Oh dear, not the break you planned at all. Hope Bob is feeling better.

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  14. Oh dear, so sorry your long awaited break didn't go to plan but glad to hear that Bob is feeling better. The kidney infection would explain some of the back pain. Being ill when away from home is not fun. X

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  15. Oh dear, poor Bob. Nothing worse than feeling ill away from home. Hope he recovers and feels more himself soon. Maybe you will be able to have another getaway later?

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  16. Get well soon Bob
    Alison in Devon x

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  17. I do hope those antibiotics are working and that Bob is improving each day. A shame it happened while you were away but I hope you both enjoyed some of your break.

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    1. We visited the places which held greatest significance and I'm really glad about that

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  18. So sorry to hear about your disrupted holiday. It is frightening and lonely to find oneself having to make most of the decisions when one's other half is at a low ebb. Well done for managing the situation so well. I do hope you return to Kent soon. Perhaps we could meet up again down here. Nicky K

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    1. That would be good, I'd love to meet up again

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  19. As soon as I read back ache and nausea it took me back, kidney infections are horrendous and Bob did well even attempting your planned activities. I’m glad to hear he is improving xx

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  20. Glad he got to see his Dad's grave. I hope he feels better soon and has no more health issues.

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    1. It was a special moment. He's looking much brighter this evening

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  21. I hope Bob is feeling much better now. Both of you are due for a rest up at home!

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