What is your longest WIP? (Work in progress)
Thursday, 10 September 2026
A Stitch In Time?
What is your longest WIP? (Work in progress)
Wednesday, 9 September 2026
Fit For A Queen?
A couple of weeks ago we were at a Village Yard Sale. I picked up a spare Pyrex Bowl for 10p and a second melamine bowl for 20p. The first a simple 1litre pudding bowl - I have one already - this is a useful size for steamed puds etc. The second is an iconic bowl I have admired since we first married...
In 2009, my SIL gave me these two melamine bowls from M&S, 2.5 litre and 1.5 litre sizes. I use them all the time. I love them, and their cherry red brightness enlivens the kitchen.
But why is so special about this new bowl? Simply that it is a Danish design, from the Rosti Company, and called The Margrethe Bowl. It has the most wonderful history, it was first made in 1950...
Tuesday, 8 September 2026
Bargain Buy
Blogfriends will know how much I love words, their meanings and their history
In Greek. lego means I say
In Latin, it can be mean I collect or I assemble
And in Danish 'leg godt' means play well
All the grandchildren enjoy Lego, George especially [I am convinced he has more Lego people than there are people living in this village!] So I was interested in a Lego storage unit which I saw at the Yard Sale. I took a photo, and put it in the family WhatsApp group. Steph responded positively so I bought it. The seller apologised that the front bottom bar was missing. I said I that was no problem, I was married to a guy from the Men's Shed!
We brought it home. I put the bins in the bath [they were not very dirty. just a bit dusty] and Bob added a front bar, a backbar, and a back panel to stop the drawers pushing right through. All scrap wood from his Stash. The pink baseplate on the top reveals this is actually a Strictly Briks piece which is Lego compatible. So I tried out a Duplo Cowboy from the Toybox and he seemed quite happy. Now all we have to do is plan a trip to Manchester [not sure |I could manage this on the train!]
What a bargain for £4!
Monday, 7 September 2026
Will This Work For Me?
Sometimes I tune in to one of Joshua Becker's minimalism videos. He seems a very nice guy, and genuine in his approach. And he certainly practices what he preaches in terms of being generous with his resources. His main premise is that if we have too many possessions they can be a burden to us, and stop us living to the best of our ability*. This little video could easily be included in Michael Mosley's "Just One Thing" list. Joshua explains how the "one less" habit can help reduce clutter gently but effectively. I may try his idea this autumn and see if it works for me.
*JB is an enthusiastic Christian, and elsewhere speaks about how having a faith in Jesus helps him to 'live, and to live abundantly'Sunday, 6 September 2026
Do Small Things With Great Love...
In these days of 'instant gratification' [Order online now and it will be with you within hours...] it is good to remind ourselves that some things take time, love and patience. The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step [Personally, I'd struggle with 500 miles, and then 500 more, but I would be do it, if it got me to my beloved]
I was thinking of the goals we set ourselves [major and minor] which may need a lot of little steps
- learning a new language or skill
- tidying and decluttering the home
- restoring broken relationships
- making a patchwork quilt
- teaching a child to read, swim, cycle
- reading a difficult book
- building a good community
- creating a lovely garden
- adapting after a 'life-event' [moving, childbirth, job-loss, aging, bereavement etc]
- I'm not doing this alone, friends**, family and faith are there to help
- I don't need to be quick, I can go at my own pace
- Some steps will be small and easy, others may challenge and stretch me
- I need to slow down sometimes, and wait patiently for others to catch up
**September marks the birthday of my friend Christine, who generously gives me The Painted Bear Calendar every year for Christmas, it is a year round gift. Thank you Christine for being there on my journey with me for so many years now.
Saturday, 5 September 2026
Golden Apples, Or Wolf Peaches?
A huge thank you to all the kind people who have shared their lovely homegrown tomatoes with us this summer. I have concluded that gardeners fall into two groups - the diligent waterers [like Brian] and the less conscientious [like me]. I started off determined to raise a crop of crimson globes, but once the water butts were empty and I was making frequent overheated journeys with the can from tap to pot I lost enthusiasm.
But despite that, the fridge has been well filled with lovely donations - huge scarlet beefsteak and golden 'Texas toms' and tiny ruby cherries. The lettuce patch revived after the rains, so I was able to make 'regular' salads. But I knew we couldn't eat all the tomatoes before they were past their best. What to do?
Ann suggested a pie, and Liz mentioned a Tarte Tatin just as I was thinking about pastry. The legend is that at the famous Tatin Hotel in the Loire valley, one of the sisters absent-mindedly made an apple tart upside down, flipped it out of the pan, and into the history books. [I am not convinced by this story at all]
But what works for apples ought to work for tomatoes. Joy the Baker advises cooking them whole. I cut mine into slices [smaller ones in half] Arranging them in my Le Creuset pan, big slices first then filling gaps with smaller ½ toms I sweated them off for a little while with a little butter and olive oil. Having sprinkled salt, strewn basil leaves, and drizzled balsamic vinegar, I patted a circle of puff pastry on top [Co-op pre rolled sheet from chilled section] 16 minutes in a hot oven, then I flipped it over. Cheese on half of it [for Bob] and under the grill till that melted. Served with a red&white cabbage/red onion/carrot coleslaw. Quick and easy to make and very toothsome....
Italians call them pomo d'oro which translates to golden apples, as the first fruits brought to Europe from the Americas were yellow. We Brits call them tomatoes from the Aztec word tomatl
The Latin name is lycopersicon which translates as wolf peach and that comes from a German legend saying that you could use these fruity to summon werewolves! [You may know the word lycopene, that helpful antioxidant found in tomatoes, and also pink grapefruit]
Whatever you call them, big or small, red or yellow. tomatoes are full of good nutrients. I'm truly grateful to my lovely neighbours for their generosity.
WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE TOMATO RECIPE?
Friday, 4 September 2026
Blinkin' Blogger!!
All good herein Cyprus. Blogger will let me post your comments but not reply to them. SORRY
You Gotta Pop A Pocket Or Two!
Online these can cost up to £15 each
The Norfolk Mum had posted a picture, so I made a cardboard template. She wanted the simple pockets, not the pones with an attached clip. I set up a production plan, and easily made forty in a day, using scraps from THE Great Stash. I already had a poppa gadget and supplies. I used some floral prints, and some which were 'child friendly' - cars, dragons, fairies, teddies.
Thursday, 3 September 2026
A Bit Of A Puzzle
I love puzzles, and do a daily killer sudoku each morning - a 3 x 3 grid into which I have to fit numbers. But this week I have done a different sudoku challenge- one for packing my suitcase! We are going on holiday to Cyprus. I needed to pack the minimal number of garments for the week. Following the example of my daughters I've used the sudoku method. You choose 9 garments which will combine to make 27 outfits. 3 tops, 3 bottoms, 3 pairs of shoes = 3 x 3 x 3 =27
Blues and whites abound. But I am not taking jeans. They are currently way too snug for hot weather. I don't want shorts. This was what I've ended up with-
4 tops - white linen, white cotton tee, blue cotton tee, striped tee
This should be 4 x 3 x 2 = 24.
Do you buy new clothes for your holiday?
Wednesday, 2 September 2026
A Case In Point
I remember many years ago reading an article in a magazine about packing to go on holiday. It said this:
Put EVERY thing you think you need on the bed
[clothes, toiletries, personal stuff etc]
Now put HALF of it away again.
You only need 50% of what you first thought.
Another 'tip' I came across was this :
If you are holidaying in the UK, wear trousers for travel, pack underwear for the remaining days and use a small case. Then pop into a charity shop and buy a dress and a couple of tops. Swap these around through your stay. On the last day, put all but your underwear and travel outfit into a bag, and give it back to the CS
In the past few years, we've rarely had holidays 'away' - we just came to Cornerstones. Since retirement, our trips have been in the UK by car [plenty of luggage room] and our one Paris trip [by train] was brief and we had minimal packing [as we did in the days of motorbike holidays - three pairs of knickers and a tin of soap, and not much more] But this year, now Bob's back has been treated, and we are flying abroad. So what's essential in my luggage?
Passport and tickets [keep copies of all important info on my phone as well]
Prescription medications [so many pills...] which should be kept in the original boxes. Customs may refuse plastic bags with strips of meds which have been trimmed to just the 7 days worth, as they cannot be identified.
Technology - phones, tablets, headphones, charging leads, travel plugs.
Toiletries -toothbrush, hairbrush, suncream etc [I have treated myself to some little bottles for decanting shampoo etc]
Random useful bits pen, bite-zapper, tweezers, mini-sewing kit, lightweight fold-up tote
Clothes and shoes - a hat, underwear, swimwear, and a 'capsule' wardrobe
And not much else!
My Son In Law Gaz gave me a very useful tip - if you are staying in a hotel, [especially abroad, or in an unfamiliar city] grab one of the cards from the reception desk and tuck it in your bag or pocket. That way if you go out for the evening and want to get a cab back, you can easily show the driver the correct details.
What are the essentials in your suitcase?
What have I forgotten in my list?
Tuesday, 1 September 2026
Am I Being Picky?
I have no problem with the word pick - it is useful in so many contexts
- pick and mix [Woolworths, Saturday morning, sixpence worth]
- pick a card [any card]
- pick the locks [never as easy as it seems on TV]
- pick of the pops [with Alan Freeman et al]
- pick your own [strawberries, apples, pumpkins etc]
- pick up the tab [thank you, that's kind of you]
- pick up and knit [that gets more stitches on the needle]
- pick up the pieces [and move on...]
- pick at your food [no go on, eat it!]
- pick your nose- or teeth [but in private, please]
- pick a quarrel [no, don't!]
- pick a pocket [or two]
But please don't expect me to get excited about PICKY BITS - I do not like this term! It has been everywhere this summer!In Spain they have tapas, in the Eastern
Mediterranean, meze, in Scandinavia smörgåsbord , French
friends enjoy l'apero and tartines
Picky bits just sound so much less appetising. It's the meal made from
"what is in the fridge when the family need feeding - and there's not
enough of any one item to go round". Three slices of a quiche, some
leftover cooked potatoes and two cold cooked sausages, half a bag of salad
leaves, some crisps, and a wedge of cheese. Plus a part baked baguette lurking
at the back of the bread bin for emergencies, and some yogurts [the less
popular flavours from the multipack which always get left till last!] All
piled onto the table with a stack of plates, and some cutlery in the big enamel
mug.
Yes I have served a meal like this. But I am not going to call it Picky Bits. And I'm not sure about Sainbury's Picky Bits Offers...definitely not following Waitrose's suggestion of buying their Cantabrian
Anchovies, Greek Halkidiki Olives, and Iberico Cheese Involtinis. [what are these ?]
How do you feel about picky bits?
Monday, 31 August 2026
Incy Wincy , Please Keep Out!
For nearly six months, Bob's Spider Rehoming System has been working very well. I am happy to use it to take offending arachnids to the end of the front path and release them onto the pavement. Except when it is dark, and I'm in my pjs and I spot a spider in the bath.
At such moments I drop the plastic pot over the creature, and it gets dealt with in the morning. This has happened a lot recently, as we approach September Spider Month.
Our bath has an overflow outlet the exact same size as the plughole. When we empty the bath [usually because the grandchildren have been in it] we 'park the plug'. But this means the spiders come up the regular plughole.
And if the plug goes back in the hole, then they squeeze their 8 legs through the overflow hole.
I was in the Futility Room when I had a brainwave! Back in Kirby in 1996, we had a kitchen sink with 2½ bowls, and only 1 plug. So I bought a red 'universal' silicon 'travel plug' to use when needed. And I have kept that in my 'laundry stuff' box for years.
Perfect solution.
There is no way Incy can climb up into the bath now. I still have the red bowls I bought for that kitchen. They are used every Friday for the orchid watering session. The flowers all gone now, the Sir David models are guarding the foliage.
Sunday, 30 August 2026
A Prayer For Nepal
God of mercy and healing,
We come before you grieving for the lives lost in Nepal. We grieve with the
people of Nepal as we hear the echoes of their sorrows. Our hearts are with
them as they pick up the pieces of their lives swept by the massive flashflood
in their community. Lord, hear our prayer and extend your sheltering arms upon
them.
We lift up to you the people of Nepal, whose lives were inundated by floods.
May You equip your people to bring them their basic needs. May You move your
people to provide them shelter. May You empower your people to rescue more
lives and bring them to safety.
Your Creation groans, and the people of Nepal and of the world groan with it.
Use your people to bring comfort to the afflicted. Use us, dear God, to seek
justice for the victims and survivors of this climate and ecological crisis.
In Christ’s merciful name,
Amen.
[thank you to Christians in the Philippines for sharing these words]
Saturday, 29 August 2026
Coffee And A Danish?
Thank you to everyone who has recommended The Sommerdahl Murders on Channel 4 'Walter Presents'. We are slowly working our way through the 5 series and enjoying the show. It has really made me want to visit Denmark! Last year, Rosie went on a brief city-break to Copenhagen with Liz, and loved it.
When I visit new places, the three things that interest me most are the people, the history and the food.
Denmark ranks 5th in the world for 'coffee consumption per capita' - with a consumption of 3.7 cups daily. [Belgian is 9th, at 2.9 cups. Bob is definitely half Flemish] The phrase 'coffee and a Danish' is so common now. Bizarrely the name for 'a Danish pastry' in Denmark, Norway and Sweden is wienerbrød which means Viennese Pastry - apparently the recipe was brought to Denmark by Austrian Bakers. However in Austria, they call it Copenhagener Plunder. Crazy!
And as for Smørrebrød, which Danes consider a national dish, that's a whole other etymological minefield. I'm more used to the Swedish term smörgåsbord. Bob told me that this word means butter-goose-bread. I checked it out, and it does. But only if you break it into three. Smörgås means lump-of-butter. [I mean, we wouldn't translate car-pet into French as auto-chouchou would we?] Smørrebrød and smörgåsbord both mean buttered bread'
Friday, 28 August 2026
Face-Off
The family dropped round, and I bought out the packet of Party Ring biscuits I'd hidden in the cupboard.
Rosie immediately cried "Grandma! Can we do the Biscuit Face Challenge?" So we all had a go. The rules
- biscuit is placed on forehead and moved to mouth
- only move it using facial muscles, no touching
- if biscuit falls, you are out [pick it up, dust it, eat it!]
- one minute time limit
Important extra Cornerstones rules -
- nobody gets more than three tries
- biscuits down the back of sofa should be retrieved promptly and put in the bin
Thursday, 27 August 2026
Goodbye, Dolly!
The wonderful Dolly Parton has left us, to go and sing with the angels! She will be greatly missed by so many. Her nephew paid a moving tribute.[see video below]
I loved her, for her music, her honesty and her openness about her faith. I loved her generosity - helping children in the US get to College, and her worldwide Imagination Library [my own grandchildren benefited from the books they received through that] I am appalled that the hypocritical President says flags will fly at half mast for a week at the same time as his Republican Party is withdrawing funds from the I.L.across the States.
When she learned that the doctor who once treated her after a car crash was working on a vaccine for Covid, Dolly's immediate response was to pull out her chequebook and donate $1M to help. Thanks Dolly, I had my Moderna Jab!
Dolly once said “God has a plan for everything. I think it probably was his plan for me not to have kids so everybody’s kids could be mine. And they are now.”
Wednesday, 26 August 2026
There's A Mouse In The House!
Tuesday, 25 August 2026
Thank You, Bob
Today is our 47th Wedding Anniversary. Six years ago I quoted Anne Bradstreet's Poem to her 'Dear and loving husband' It is a favourite of mine. I was going to use it again - but that would be its fourth appearance in 18 years. Is that too much?
Instead I am reproducing the two "poems on the underground" which hang opposite the dining table. The first a gift from Bob to me, the second is one which I gave him.
CLOSE CLOSE ALL NIGHT
Close close all night the lovers keep.
They turn together in their sleep,
close as two papers in a book
that read each other in the dark.
Each knows all the other knows
learnt by heart from head to toes.
[by Elisabeth Bishop]
OUR MEETINGS
As in the underground there's no mistaking
the train's approach - it pushes air ahead,
whirls paper, the lines singing - a sort of dread
suffusing longing and my platform shaking
so it is before every meeting
till you arrive - hear how my heart is beating.
[by Andrew Waterman]
I am so grateful to God for this lovely bloke who brings such love, life and laughter to every dayMonday, 24 August 2026
Cosy Crime In Cambridge
Last month saw the end of "Grantchester" - it began back in 2014 with James Norton as Rev Sidney, then Tom Brittney [Rev Will] and finally, in series 10 & 11, Rishi Nair [Rev Alphy] and Robson Green as Detective 'Geordie' Keating throughout. It was all set in and around Cambridge in the 50's and 60's. Norton himself studied at Fitzwilliam College.
On Wednesday, Ben Miller [St Catharine's College] returned to ITV as the fastidious Professor T [ a spin off from the Belgian series] and on Thursday David Mitchell [Peterhouse College] was back as the cruciverbalist John 'Ludwig' Taylor. We watched Prof T and Ludwig, but I have a few comments...DON'T READ THIS POST IF YOU HAVE YET TO WATCH THEM
Spoiler Alert!!
We enjoyed Prof T this week, despite the absence of his eccentric mother played by Frances de la Tour.** His equally batty and quirky aunt Zelda [Zoe Wanamaker] filled the gap satisfactorily. But I missed Lisa Donckers [killed off at the end of last series] I love the Prof's smart, buttoned up [and gloved] persona. He's almost a British 'Monk'
Ludwig is back for a second series, and this time his sister in law Lucy [wonderfully clever Annas Maxwell Martin] gets a bigger share of the script. The murder was during the performance of an opera called Song of Solomon, and the cops picked up a baby doll, one of the props. I thought these were two huge pointers which nobody remarked upon. In 1 Kings chapter 3, wise King Solomon encounters two women [one lying] and a dead body. And he establishes whodunnit.
But Ludwig never mentions the Bible Story even though he has two women, one lying - and a dead body... I wait with interest to see if there are similar obvious, but unmentioned pointers in subsequent episodes.
Why is Oxford the serious crime place [eg Morse, Wimsey] whereas Cambridge is more cosy?
Are you watching Prof T and/or Ludwig?
Do you enjoy them?
Sunday, 23 August 2026
Still Burning...
I came across a prayer this week, which I am sharing as I found it helpful ..
Loving God our Father, who has blessed us,
And given us a good world to live in as stewards,
We bring before you all those who are affected
by the wildfires ravaging Europe
We especially pray for those
who have been evacuated.
Give them peace and safety
as they wait for the end of this crisis.
We are so grateful for the firefighters
and other workers who are risking
their own lives to bring
the fires under control.
Protect them and strengthen them
as they serve their communities.
And bless all those in authority
who are releasing funds and resources
to provide shelter and other necessities
to those at risk.
We thank you for the outpouring of concern
and support for those in need
And we pray that this community spirit
might be seen among us all the time
not only at times of emergency.
Lord, we are conscious that the world is warming,
and that human activity is contributing
significantly
to the changing climate.
We are sorry and repent of our selfish consumerism.
Help us all to find ways to reduce
our footprint upon the earth,
And give wisdom to those in power
to find a way to reduce greenhouse gases
in the atmosphere.
We offer this prayer in the name
of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ,
Amen.
With thanks to John Bavington, Chaplain of Aquitaine, CofE in Europe






































