Friday, 25 April 2025

Here Is Bear Number Thirty

On Monday I mentioned a funeral, weddings, and birthdays. After Barbara's funeral I had two sewing tasks to complete. Shortening a dress for a friend to wear at her grandson's wedding - and making another Memory Bear. I think this one is my thirtieth! Two years ago, my friend lost her partner very suddenly after twenty years. His daughter - her step-daughter - gets married today. She and my friend are very close - and I was asked if I could make a Memory Bear as a surprise for the bride - a way of remembering her precious Dad at the wedding. I had a lovely morning at F's cottage, looking through his shirts, and we talked about him.  I selected four which I felt would make a good bear, but there were a couple of special things to include - firstly his pride in his Scottish Heritage, and secondly, his love of Short Mat Bowls,
So this little chap has the family tartan on his paws and ribbon - and the bowls club badge on his side. But please could I do something with his Clan Teeshirt?

That is always a challenge, because teeshirt fabric is stretchy, and has to be stabilised if it is for a bear - and it is not wise to mix woven and stretch fabrics. I suggested making the teeshirt into a tote bag for the bear to travel in!

Oops, just spotted the thread on the badge in the photo. I assure you that is not there on the bear!
In side the backpack flap are embroidered the details of H's Dad. I do this for all my bears, usually following the same formula 
In memory of  
xxxx  
Years of Birth and Death
Made with love
for yyyy
It is so much more special if there is some sort of personalisation I think, and I hope it brings comfort. My friend was pleased with the result. I hope to see wedding photos soon.
The three birthdays - one is another good friend from church, who asked me to shorten a jumpsuit she had bought to wear at her birthday event. She has recently started using her sewing machine, and said "I ought to be able to do this for myself" I did her jumpsuit, but gave her a careful set of instructions about shortening trousers. I was so thrilled when she turned up at church, with pictures, of the second pair which she had managed to fix by herself, following my notes. "Now I won't need to ask you anymore, now you have taught me." A very good result all round. 
Tomorrow, we are going off to Nottingham to join a couple celebrating their 70th&80th birthdays. A happy family event - but also en route, we will call in at the nearby IKEA. I need a new waste bin to go under the sink in my new kitchen!


28 comments:

  1. What a lovely memento of her father for the bride! I'm sure she will treasure it. Your teaching your friend to do her own hemming reminds me of that saying about giving a man a fish or teaching a man to fish. :)

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  2. The bear and his reasoning for choices was lovely to see and read. Well done for being a good teacher!

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  3. What a beautiful gift for the bride. I have made two bears so far and I commend your patience in making these special ones. Remember you said you are going to IKEA for a bin-nothing else! It’s an endless source of temptation for me and I usually buy picture frames for “just in case “ gifts!! Enjoy the party and safe journey. Catriona

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  4. The bear is so wonderful how touched the bride will be. The memory bears you make are lovely tangible reminders of loved ones. That is great teaching your friend how to use her sewing machine so she can do her own alterations etc. It is so wonderful to impart knowledge and see someone become more confident. I hope your Nottingham visit goes well and your trip to IKEA is successful. Regards Sue H

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    1. Yes, I agree, teaching is so rewarding!

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  5. You are a good woman, Angela.

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  6. Such a beautiful little bear, all the memories are there. I hope the daughter loved it. Carole R.

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  7. A lovely bear
    Alison in Wales x

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  8. The bear is lovely, I especially like his tartan paws and ribbon and that they are in the family tartan but the idea of the tee shirt being a tote bag for him is so brilliant too! Well done. JanF

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  9. Whenever you have a memory bear on the blog I wish I'd saved some of Colin's shirts - but they all went off to a charity shop.

    Thank you for the lovely birthday card that arrived today 25th - 11 days after you posted!! It must have forgotten it's passport to get into Suffolk!

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    1. I don't think I'd started making bears when you lost Colin. And it is a good thing that his shirts have been sent to bless other people. I'm glad the card arrived eventually

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  10. What a very cute bear and how talented you are!

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  11. How wonderful to be able to make such a significant bear for your friend's stepdaughter, further cementing the precious bond between these two women who shared someone so loved by them both.

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  12. I was very touched that the bride's stepmum and mum are good friends, and when Mum heard about the bear project, she provided the tartan and the ribbon

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  13. Those bears are such a labour of love on your part too; I remember you saying how many pieces you have to cut for each one. It's a wonderful service that you give to the families.

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  14. Angela. What a lovely bear to give to the bride. Number 30, my how wonderful. A friend and I have made these following your pattern. Thank you.

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    1. So glad you have been able to make bears too. The pattern is adapted from this one https://www.howjoyful.com/howjoyful-bear-tutorial-and-pattern/

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  15. Such a special gift for the bride.

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