Tuesday, 1 September 2026

Am I Being Picky?

 I have no problem with the word pick -  it is useful in so many contexts

  • pick and mix [Woolworths, Saturday morning, sixpence worth]
  • pick a card [any card] 
  • pick the locks [never as easy as it seems on TV]
  • pick of the pops [with Alan Freeman et al]
  • pick your own [strawberries, apples, pumpkins etc]
  • pick up the tab [thank you, that's kind of you]
  • pick up and knit [that gets more stitches on the needle]
  • pick up the pieces [and move on...]
  • pick at your food [no go on, eat it!]
  • pick your nose- or teeth [but in private, please]
  • pick a quarrel [no, don't!]
  • pick a pocket [or two]
But please don't expect me to get excited about PICKY BITS - I do not like this term! It has been everywhere this summer!

In Spain they have tapas, in the Eastern Mediterranean, meze, in Scandinavia smörgåsbord , French friends enjoy l'apero and tartines
Picky bits just sound so much less appetising. It's the meal made from "what is in the fridge when the family need feeding - and there's not enough of any one item to go round". Three slices of a quiche, some leftover cooked potatoes and two cold cooked sausages, half a bag of salad leaves, some crisps, and a wedge of cheese. Plus a part baked baguette lurking at the back of the bread bin for emergencies, and some yogurts [the less popular flavours from the multipack which always get left till last!]  All piled onto the table with a stack of plates, and some cutlery in the big enamel mug. 
Yes I have served a meal like this. But I am not going to call it Picky Bits.  And I'm not sure about Sainbury's Picky Bits Offers...definitely not following Waitrose's suggestion of buying their Cantabrian Anchovies, Greek Halkidiki Olives, and Iberico Cheese Involtinis. [what are these ?]

I think I am going to pick a better sounding term. I may refer to a Cold Collation, as the Victorians did, or perhaps 'a few things from the deli counter'
If it is a meal made entirely of leftovers, then I call it orts - the Old English word for 'the food which remains after a meal'
How do you feel about picky bits?


58 comments:

  1. I am glad I'm not the only one who dislikes this dreadful term!

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  2. I really dislike the term 'picky bits' too it sounds too much like something that someone has picked out of their nose!! Yuck

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  3. My daughter is a great fan of them but usually all carefully created from the supermarket deli counters! Spanish tapas type food being a favourite. Catriona

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    1. A carefully chosen selection deserves a "proper" name imho

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  4. I hate it as a description, it sets my teeth on edge, so pleased I am not alone. Jill x

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  5. Ditto....I'm happy with 'Leftovers'. Some of my favourite meals have been leftovers and on a really good day there might be a starter, main course and pudding - in very small portions, obviously - but a feast nonetheless.

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  6. I'm another one who hates that term. It's another example of 'dumbing down' and I won't buy from those 'ranges'.

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  7. I have never heard or seen the expression. If I had it would not feature in my life. Simple.

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  8. We just say leftovers. I love leftover meals and often cook a bit extra just to have leftovers. Picky bits sounds horrible not appetizing at all. Regards Sue H

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  9. Frightful ! We always refer to them as Leftovers. Our language is gradually becoming eroded. I'm surprised Waitrose succumbed!

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    1. Standards are slipping all over the place!

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  10. Sounds disgusting. I prefer the word 'leftovers'.

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  11. I've never heard that term before BUT we are have a bit of this and that for dinner tonight. From Shirley in OZ

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    1. "A Bit Of This And That" has an air of mystery to it!

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  12. I have read the term primarily on British blogs, so, I'm assuming it is mainly a British term. Charcuterie boards are quite popular over here, but they are not leftovers. I call leftovers just that - leftovers. Sometimes, however, leftovers tend to get made over into "fried rice" or "kottu roti" (using tortillas in lieu of proper roti) at my house. :)

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    1. Charcuterie boards are considered and planned. Tortillas are a great for wrapping up and using leftovers

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  13. We’re posh we are, we like a ‘boo-fay’ 😁
    Helen

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    1. 🤣🤣 I remember being very excited as a child, when we had an invitation to a church event, followed by a buffet - except I thought it was pronounced buff-ette!

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  14. I’ve heard this term and guessing it’s sprung up from Tik Tok or similar……..largely it seems to sum up the image of lots of packets and tubs being opened and flung on a coffee table so that people can help themselves and binge watch the latest TV trend at the same time……..I think my Mum would have called it a buffet…….
    Sorry for my cynicism, I should be kinder, every generation invents stuff don’t they…..😀
    Alison in Devon x

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    1. See Helen's remark above. Yes, every generation invents their own thing - but I do lament the way that the 'family meal' around the table has become a thing of the past for so many folk.

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  15. Left-overs... every time to struggle to even buy anything labelled 'picky bits'. I thought I was just being a bit picky over what I called my food...

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    1. It seems so odd to see the term in Waitrose...

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  16. I dont mind it; for me, definitely no worse than the 'fridge scrape' or 'fridge rubble' soup that I've heard people refer to. That really makes me nauseous.

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    1. I'm afraid I do make Fridge Scrape Soup sometimes.

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  17. My Mum always called it fridge scrape, fortunately we don't get many leftovers in this house. Xx

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    1. Please do not serve it to Scarlet! (above)

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  18. We call it 'Bread and Butter Tea'. A loaf of bread is buttered and everything that can go on it or in it is put on the table, jam, ham, cheese, salad, crisps, pickles etc and everyone helps themselves and no on judges who has what in a sandwich! Great fun when the children are all involved.

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  19. Hello Angela, I’m with you on ‘Collation’, it lends a certain elegance. Carole from Durham.

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    1. Thank you Carole. People rarely consider Cornerstones a place of elegance!

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  20. I steer clear of the picky bits selection - they usually add up to be expensive bits. I do have one evening in the week when I don't cook, when I've been shopping and don't feel like it! I serve buddha bowls, bits and pieces from the fridge arranged nicely!

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    1. Buddha bowls look so attractive and appetising

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  21. Picky Bits? Whatever is "the old country" coming to? It sounds like something invented by AI. Even "Take your pick" would sound more civilized. "Bits and Pieces" would give a shout out to the Dave Clark Five! Perhaps "Medley" would serve to describe all of these.

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    1. 🤣🤣🤣 Dave Clark Five? Are you feeling glad all over?

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    2. I'm showing my age! They were around a long time ago.

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  22. Picky bits makes me think of picking at scabs. Urgh! Orts brings offal to mind for some reason.
    Buffet or cold collation are both winners in my book.

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  23. I like to have Musgoes. This must go and that must go...musgoes.

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    1. Not heard that one before, but I like it! Thank you👍

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  24. I have never heard or seen the term “picky bits” and don’t find it appealing.
    We sometimes meet friends at a nearby hotel for “apéros” which comprises a glass of something and a “planche” of tasty nibbles such as gougéres, mini quiches, olives, slices of saucisses and cheese, chunks of raw veg and dips. At home we would call a random collection of cold leftovers a “fuddle”. It’s one of our favourite meals, the best being the Boxing Day Fuddle.

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    1. Aperos sound so civilised. The Boxing Day Fuddle is a superb name

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  25. I'm another one who hates the term 'picky bits', so we've changed our wording to 'a bitty bowl', which in fact is not much better.

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  26. BUDDHA Bowls???!!! Really???!!! Are there Jesus Bowls, too, I wonder???

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  27. Bless, I must apologise for my insensitivity. It is a very common item on UK menus, and in my ignorance I thought it was a term deriving from your principles of healthy vegetarian eating (much like some foods are "kosher") I now realise that it is simply a marketing term. I will not be using the phrase again. Thank you for pointing this out to me. 💗 I would never want to show disrespect to the faith of a friend.

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    1. Thank you, Angela; I appreciate your apology. And I apologize for being so sensitive about these things. Maybe the term originated from the alms bowls the Buddha and his disciples used, which Buddhist monks also use to this day. We place offerings of food in them, usually rice and prepared vegetables, for their daily meals (they eat only breakfast and lunch). Yes, the end result resembles a bowl of various items, but, at least these days, the food is prepared especially for the purpose and served with great reverence, as the offering of food is considered a meritorious act. Never picky bits and leftovers.
      Maybe I should do a blog post about this.

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  28. That would be helpful and informative. Please post! 😊

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  29. I have not heard of 'Picky Bits'. It would not encourage me to consider buying items with that kind of label. Leftovers in the fridge is much more fun and interesting.

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