The National Council for Voluntary Organisations says that
volunteering is: “Volunteering is someone spending time, unpaid, doing
something that aims to benefit the environment or someone who they're not
closely related to. Volunteering must be a choice freely made by each
individual.”
Or there’s this shorter definition; “Volunteering is doing more than you have to, because you want to, in a cause
you consider good.”
Back before Christmas, I saw that Voluntary Norfolk were advertising for somebody to do crafts with patients on the Rehab Ward at Dereham Hospital. So I made enquiries about what this entailed. The wheels were set in motion - but boy did they turn slowly! This is quite normal in the world of volunteering - references, DBS checks, training, induction, "shadowing" etc etc. I finally began the job a month ago, and this week actually did something approaching a 'craft activity' with just one patient.
There were 4 volunteers in the team, and we are having a "Sport" theme for the next four Tuesdays. I helped one lady make herself a medal, and then she coloured in a poster. Another gentleman painted a picture of a banana [he was not interested in the theme!]
It is a small unit, and this crafting is a new initiative, but we are hoping interest will grow among the other patients - we work in the day room/dining area. Patients who can walk, or go into wheelchairs, come into this room for their meals, so maybe the Olympic Display my colleague put up will stimulate more craftiness next week.
When I applied, the first question was 'have you done voluntary work before?' and I said I had been volunteering since about 1970. 'What was the first thing you did?' I said I was doing my Queen's Award in the Girls' Brigade. One requirement was doing 2 hours voluntary service each week for 6 months. So I used to cycle up the hill to Dereham Hospital each Saturday morning. I had to sort out the flowers, help patients with their elevenses, and chat to them.
Obviously the patients are quite limited in their abilities.They are all OAPs, some in their 90s, and many have few fine motor skills, others have arms/hands strapped up, due to falls. Finding appropriate activities is a challenge. But just chatting with them is a positive exercise. The nursing staff are really appreciative, as they do not have time to sit and talk with these folk.
If giving up 90 minutes on a Tuesday morning can help brighten someone's day, give them more confidence in their abilities, or just relieve the pressure on nursing staff, then I will be a volunteer. The important thing is to pick up the correct lanyard from the hook on the back of the study door. It would confuse everybody if I arrived with a badge saying Bob, Chaplaincy Team! Finding an appropriate photo was a challenge. The picture is four years old - after that haircut, I stopped dyeing the grey hairs!
Do you volunteer? And do you find it rewarding?
I am a Foodbank volunteer , local MU Secretary + have been involved in other voluntary activities in the past. I was due to be transferred to Foxley Ward yesterday from the NNUH but the transport failed to turn up. Hope to get there today so may see you there next week although I’m not into craft activities myself much as I admire your and other friends’ skills.
ReplyDeleteThank you. I wondered if you'd get sent to Foxley, and did look out for you yesterday. Get well soon.
DeleteAt boarding school there was an arrangement where the ladies in the almshouses in town would host us for tea on Sunday afternoons. I'm not sure if we were volunteering our company or they were volunteering their hospitality! 'Our' lady was very old and had a budgie called Banjo that flied around the room.
ReplyDeleteTea with old ladies can be interesting, delicious or downright bizarre. I went with my parents once to have tea with two exceedingly elderly ladies. They had a massive Irish wolfhound which drooled everywhere (including over my baby brother in his pushchair) and mum had to discreetly scrape the mould off the Jan we were offered for our scones. 60 years on I still feel nauseous at the memory!
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DeleteMrs B was inclined to put leftover cakes back in the freezer... we knew not to choose the bakewell tarts or battenburg slices after the third or fourth week...
DeleteI don't volunteer although I did used to help with the youth club at one point before becoming a teacher. One day, I'll have the time and energy to but with commuting, I'm never back in time for any local initiatives. I actually would like to spend time chatting with older people as I enjoy talking to them. Kx
ReplyDeleteFull time teachers are excused from.sny extra volunteering duties. You always go the extra mile Kezzie
DeleteTo be honest, like you I can't imagine not volunteering! It's part of who I am.
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DeleteAs ever a very thought provoking post Angela.
ReplyDeleteI think a good volunteer gets as much out of the experience as those whom the volunteer is working with. Since retirement I’ve done various roles ; some more rewarding than others but all have hopefully helped me grow and learn.
As ever thank you so much for your blog.
Love the mice.
Jill
Thank you Jill. Yes, I agree, some roles are more rewarding than others- but looking back, I can see good things I didn't notice at the time
DeleteI would like to volunteer, but as a full-time carer I just don't have the time. My way of contributing is to take the time to exchange a few words with any elderly or vulnerable people I come across when out and about. It's nice to make someone smile.
ReplyDeleteFull time carers are very special people, like teachers, whose whole life is bound up with looking after others. Your "down time" should be free if added responsibilities - but making someone smile is always good 😊❤️
DeleteI have volunteered ever since I was a young teenager. My first volunteering was for the RNLI firstly collecting with one of those lifeboat boxes, then going on to be minutes secretary when I was 16 and knew a bit of shorthand, for the local RNLI branch committee. Since that I have done a large selection of things. When I had a spinal infarction 6 years ago and was paraplegic for some time there were some wonderful hospital volunteers who did so much to aid my recovery and you are so right just a chat and a smile can make such a difference. Both our sons have volunteered for care homes one just visits and chats and the other who is a musician goes with a friend and they play duets and get everyone singing. Volunteering is good for the soul. Regards Sue H
ReplyDeleteDefinitely good for the soul - and lovely to see the next generation "picking up the baton". Goo, too, to hear you have experienced 'both sides' of volunteering - as giver and receiver
DeleteI volunteer for an organization that provides services for elderly as needed, such as giving them rides to appointments, helping them sort out paperwork, taking them grocery shopping. I enjoy spending time with them.
ReplyDeleteCross generational things are excellent - and helping with tasks we take for granted can mean so much to an older person who is struggling
DeleteLike you, Ang, I have been volunteering almost all my life. Sunday school teacher from age 14, charity shop volunteer, Drop in Centre volunteer, crafting volunteer and Chairperson of an older people’s organisation which takes a lot of my time (and brainpower). I enjoy volunteering as I am people person and always hope that my contribution is helping someone. Catriona
ReplyDeleteI'm sure it is helping many people - and don't forget your spouse's contribution to The Shed . The members there do plenty to benefit the community
DeleteI first volunteered as a teenager, visiting the elderly for a chat and cuppa. Since then I have volunteered in many organisations ranging from a trade union committee to parent teachers group. Currently I listen to children read once a week at the school I worked at, help occasionally at the local library and run the Friends Group of a small local senior supported living community. It's something I've always done but thinking about it, I realise that I get so much in return for my efforts. Over the years I have made new friends, learnt new skills and had some great times. All bound in the knowledge that I have hopefully made a difference in some people's lives. Your blog has really made me think today Angela!
ReplyDeleteI know there are many who have benefitted from your generous gift of time - often given cheerfully erven when the rest of your life was rather busy. And all the hours you have given to Holiday Clubs too ....
DeleteYeah apparently I volunteer for my mother, my daughters-in-law, my grandchildren and I didn't even know it!!!
ReplyDeleteI don't volunteer at the moment, but my first ever voluntary job was at Sunday School. After I left the 'small kids class', I continued to go so that I could help put out chairs, and the tables for crafts etc and then pack away again at the end. My next volunteer role was for Oxfam, just on the till on a Saturday and Wednesday morning at first, and that led to me being given the job as Shop Manager ... and a whole change of career path.
ReplyDeleteWho knows where a small step will lead us...You wouldn't be the first CS volunteer who ended up as a paid shop manager
DeleteFunny thing. At first I felt a bit guilty because I don’t volunteer anywhere. Then I thought - wait a minute, in October you complete 30 years in Scouting, with several of those doing multiple jobs! Interesting that my brain doesn’t immediately identify that as volunteering.
ReplyDeleteThe second definition at the top of the post "Volunteering is doing more than you have to, because you want to, in a cause you consider good." covers so much - helping with youth organisations, looking after children [including family] taking time with the elderly [inc relations] You do not HAVE to do it, but you CHOOSE to. And it is a blessing to them and to you
DeleteMy first volunteering was to sun a new Brownie group in the village. That was fun. Now I do a couple of hours a week with a local group providing lunch and light activities for elderly housebound people. They get transport to the village hall. Today we had children from the local school to sing, which was lovely. Then a really healthy salad lunch, with 'unhealthy' cake. Yummy, they said!
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DeleteThat's wonderful of you to volunteer, Angela. You are always helping others.
ReplyDeleteI have volunteered, too, at the temple, at my daughter's day care and schools, participating in community programs such as March of Dimes through my office, knitting hats for newborn babies for the American Lung Association, etc. I wanted to do more volunteering after I retired, and looked into what was involved, but, then, after Covid, I decided I wasn't prepared for in-person interactions. Instead, these days, I "volunteer" by making blankets to donate to the cancer patients.
Thank you Bless for highlighting the fact that people can volunteer even from their own homes, by giving time to create things to help others. One of the positive aspects of the pandemic is that it has enabled new patterns of interacting with others
DeleteYes I do. I work part time at my church and we run a number of outreach programs and fundraise throughout the year.
ReplyDelete.I volunteer twice a year at our book and cookie sale.
.I help to organize our team in the yearly Waterfront walk and marathon - we do the 5km walk.
.I do the set up and then facilitate at one of the tables Tuesdays evenings at what we call The Better English Cafe which helps newcomers and Int'l students with their conversational English. We get over 100 participants each week.
.As a staff member I also help to to advertise the work of our Out of the Cold Team. We feed breakfast to about 120 people each week and dinner to around 300 Monday evenings Nov. to April.
Everyone says the same thing - it can be hard work but we get just as much out of it as the people that we help.
Wow! You are so busy Margie. How great to belong such a caring church and be able to help so many
DeleteThat sounds like a lovely way to bring some joy to people in rehab.
ReplyDeleteI was a library volunteer for 30 years, also took on public relations for various local groups in turn, which involved writing publicity in the local paper and in one case, speaking to local councils and 3 churches to drum up support for a community project. I once co-ordinated local volunteer drivers. Now my only volunteering is in the church choir, and helping to organize the church library.
Another diverse portfolio of activities. Organising the church library is definitely a labour of love!
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